Molly Graham

Molly Graham has worked for some of tech’s most effective leaders, including Mark Zuckerberg, Sheryl Sandberg, Chamath Palihapitiya, and Bret Taylor. Today she leads Glue Club, a community for leaders navigating rapid scale, growth, and change. She’s best known for her “Give away your Legos” framework and her collection of practical mental models for leading through hypergrowth.

7 skills 8 insights

Career Skills

High-growth careers often involve taking high-risk roles for which you are unqualified, leading to a 'J-curve' of initial struggle followed by massive advancement.

"The way a lot of people do careers is a set of stairs. Just walk up the stairs and you'll get promoted every two years. But that is boring. The much more fun careers are like jumping off cliffs and yo..."
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Communication Skills

Escalation is a collaborative tool to gain clarity or decision-making power, not a personal failure or 'tattling.'

"Escalation is a tool... People get stuck with two people with equal power trying to solve a problem. You can spend so much time bashing heads... actually what you just need to do is go up."
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Hiring & Teams Skills

Over-promising stability or specific career paths during hiring/onboarding creates 'letter bombs' that demoralize high performers when they inevitably explode.

"Do not promise things that you can't control... being honest and upfront about who you are as a company, about what you're able to promise, all of that is actually... it's very hard work but it's so i..."
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Company culture is an extension of the founder's DNA and is defined by their actions and decision-making patterns rather than stated values.

"80% of the culture of a company is literally defined by the personality of the founder. Our job as operators or as leaders is to help articulate the culture that they're creating."
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Most team dysfunctions stem from unclear roles and expectations rather than interpersonal conflicts.

"80% of problems on teams actually happen because of structural issues or dynamics issues. So, when there are problems on your team, where you start is at the top, you start structural issues."
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Leadership Skills

Maintaining a high-performing team requires the discipline to remove underperformers who create 'drag' on the organization.

"Firing people is as important as hiring people. Getting good at identifying when someone does not belong or someone is not going to work out is actually a skill."
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To keep pace with a rapidly scaling company, leaders must constantly hand off tasks they have mastered to make room for new, larger challenges.

"You have to grow as fast as your company is growing if you really want to take advantage, both learning to give away what you've gotten good at and move on to the next shiny pile of Legos."
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Product Management Skills

Goals are primarily communication tools that must be simple, prioritized, and clearly owned to create organizational clarity.

"No company needs more than three company goals and the point of company goals is to help people know what the most important things are to success."
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