Sam Lessin

Sam Lessin is a partner at Slow Ventures, a former VP of Product at Facebook, and a two-time founder who’s now teaching etiquette to Silicon Valley’s founders. His etiquette book and courses have become surprisingly popular, teaching founders how to “show up in a room with a low heart rate” and quickly build trust.

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Effective first impressions are built on active listening techniques that demonstrate you value the individual you are meeting.

"You want to repeat names back is a really, really valuable thing to think about when you're meeting someone and say, 'Hey, Lenny, it's great to meet you.' Why? It shows that you're actually trying to..."
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Professional networking is more effective when treated as an opportunity for long-term relationship building rather than a series of immediate transactions.

"I think understanding how to show up, take a beat, come in with a mindset, not of scarcity, but of abundance, understand how to give more than you take, understand how to build a relationship, not col..."
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